Thomas Washam was my 3rd great grandfather. His daughter, Sarah Ann "Sallie" Washam (Dec 1839-Bef 1920) was my 2nd great grandmother. She was married to James J. Brown. Which one of Thomas' wives was her mother? Sarah C. Rodgers (1801-1843), Lovey Torrence (1805-1870), or Mary Ann Whitlow (1820-1901)?