Scott, Hey! I am leaving my e address so that you can e-mail me instead of going through the message board.This is really kind of funny, but after my parents died, I felt like I didn't have a reason to stay in NM. I have been living in GA. for 8 years. I love it here and all is good. Economy brought us and it will keep us as long as it is good. Jeff tripled his income and I almost doubled mine, all of the kids are in college including Quincy, who moved here after he got out of the navy. None of my kids are married and that is ok with me. Q-26, Crystal-22, John-21. All are working and thriving. Hope all is good for you and your family. Take care!