My father also told me the same thing, and I have always found it to be true. My name is Lynda I was born in 1969, my father was Lionel, or Rudolph, Ralph's oldest brother. I live in queens. I do know who you are, but you may not know me, I'm Rudolph and Cheryl's oldest daughter. I too, want to find more relatives. Get back to me, if you get more interesting replies. God bless you and your family.