So I continue to look for information to give my children some idea of their heritage. My childrens great grandfather/mother were each from very large families. I think he came from 12 siblings and she from 11! Nunzio N Velardi 1905-1984 and Violet 1907-1984, they had 6 kids. My children's grandfather Gerald P died in a construction accident in 1958 (nee 1937) and their great aunt Maryann died from some type of cancer in 1972(nee 1937). I know there were several others in the Tom's River area Gilbert (aka John), Donny, Paul, and Steven. Several were married and divorced I believe all had kids who would now be in their late 30's 40's. Paul I think was a lawyer, and the rest were in construction. My exhusband's mother's name is Dawn (Velardi) Johnasen.
I was hoping someone would have information, but I guess people only look when they aren't connected. Thanks for any responses. My ex had very little to do with his father's family while growing up and now my children have no contact with him. It's a shame, knowing where you came from helps support who you are.