I recently went to Calvary cemetery in Paterson to locate and visit my grandmother's grave. She is Edith Veech-Openhym-Lubinski(1897-1975) daughter of James.I also visited Alexander Nora's site. I noticed that also in Edith's site a
Mary Van Der Sluys(1885-1975)was buried. Could this Mary be James' sister? The birth seems too early to be Edith's sister Mary.