Hmmm.... It's probably not the same family then.
My Joe Vecchio was in Cleveland in 1936 when his wife, Carrie, died. At that point, they had three young boys (Sam, Frank & Dominic.)
Unfortunately, I don't know anything about Joseph Vecchio's ancestry at this point.... I don't think there were many Vecchios around.... so maybe ours are cousins. *Shrug*