My grandfather was Anthony Vaccaro from Bonefro, Italy, the son of Celestino and Maria Teresa (Primiano) Vaccaro. He married my grandmother Rose in 1917 in New Rochelle; she was born in America, but her family also came from Bonefro. I don't believe my grandfather had any siblings named Gaetano, but there seem to be a number of Anthony (or Antonio) Vaccaros who all have ties to Bonefro. I imagine it was a large family, and children were often named for their relatives, so names are repeated again and again. I'm quite certain we are cousins in one way or another. Unfortunately, I never knew my grandfather; it would have been nice to hear some stories from someone who actually lived in the old country.
I enjoyed this website about Bonefro:
http://www.echomolise.org/Bonefro.html.