Hi Christine
The answer to your first question is Three Mile Plains is near Windsor NS.
I had a discussion with my mom and she told me that her and dad(Randolph Upshaw)went to visit family with the names you had mentioned, in the Beaches,Toronto. So if your family lived in the Beaches at anytime. Then we are related.
Oh yes will be hosting a mega family reunion in Nova Scotia in July 2001. I willt tell you more later.
Martin Samuels