Val,
You will need to provide more facts, for example:
Where and when was Terrence born?
Where did Terrence and Abi get married?
I have had a quick look on the birth records I have for the GRO in the UK (1837 to 1958) and cannot find Terence listed.
Also Belinda and Peter Tudge live in South Africa, Cockhouse Restaurant, Grahamstown.
cockhouse@imaginet.co.zaRegards
Jeff Tudge