AHT's father was Alfred Tubby, born 1839 at Mile End, Middx, and who died in 1862, the same year AHT was born.
Mother was Frances Roe, born 3 Sep 1839. Frances then married Richard William Landers on 7 Dec 1863. He was my great-grandfather. (Interestingly, an older first cousin of Frances, Caroline, was the third wife of RWL'L father, John.) Frances died 11 Mar 1917 having given RWL 9 children, all but one surviving to old age.
AHT became a governor of his school, Christ's Hospital, and it was this connection that enabled my father to go there.