This sounds too similar to be coincidental. They may well be the Tovar's I have been looking for. I know that my grandmother's maiden name was Bejarano. They lived in La Union,New Mexico (a rural town outside of El Paso, TX)and then in El Paso, TX when Pedro Tovar passed away. My father (Arturo Tovar) was about 10 years old when this happened, appx 1950?. Gregoria Tovar passed away about 1983(?) in El Paso, TX.
I can recall the living offspring of my grandparents (Carmen Tovar, Margarita Tovar, Jose Tovar, Francisco Tovar and my father Arturo Tovar) but then they did bear more children. Those names I don't know off the top of my head.
If this sounds similar to your family, let me know and email me at:
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