Hi Greg,
We are second cousins (my dad Steve Talalai and your grandfather Robert )were half-brothers. To go further there is also another Greg Talalai (my brother Gregs son) who now has twins (Gregory and Guiliana). Steve and Stella (my parents) had 6 children (two are deceased-Greg and Dorothy).
most of our family is in NJ - 2 in Fl
I remember talking to a Talalai who was on the police dept or something to do with it. And i thought it was a Robert.
The Talalai family is NJ is quite large -