Hello Will,
Would you by chance happen to have an email address for Toni?
I too am connected to the Stay family from Plattsburg, NY and I have numerous photos of the Stay family members but but we cannot put names to some of the faces.

Should you (or any other Stay family member) be interested in taking a look at the photos, years ranging from 1890 to 1920 perhaps, please contact clhuntling@yahoo.com I will gladly share them with other Stay members.

Thanks
Connie