THANK YOU FOR YOUR INFO. CARMEN WAS MY MOTHERS NIECE AND MARRIED INTO THE ARNOLD FAMILY, WHO BY COINCEDENCE WAS THE BROTHER-IN-LAW OF MY MOTHER'S YOUNGEST SIBLING. I HAD NO IDEA THE NAME OF UNCLE MIKE'S WIFE,SO THIS MIGHT HELP IN MY SEARCH. I REFER TO GEORGE STANHOPE AS 'UNCLE MIKE' BECAUSE HE WAS BORN AS MIKE STARR, AND SAID TO BE RELATED TO THE INFAMOUS BELL STARR. MY GRANDMOTHER NEVER SPOKE OF IT AND THE MYSTERY SURROUNDING HER YOUTH AND HIS BIRTH HAS BEEN WELL HIDDEN. ONCE AGAIN THANK YOU, AS I NOW HAVE A FIRST NAME AS TO WHOM HE MARRIED. SINCERELY, LAJUANA STANHOPE CURTISS