check the 1870 census for Mary J. Stanaland(Standland) in Early County, Ga.

I do not understand her being listed as 86 and in a family with small children........maybe the GM??

N. Stanaland(Standland) was H. of Household age 58 --Cedar Springs, Ga. Early County, Ga. (earlier years his wife was listed as Sara Al)
these children were listed in 1870 --Ella age 4 -Elizabeth age 18--
William age 10,--Jefferson age 9 and John age 5--Mary J. age 4--Martha age 5 and Peter age 1

with Whitaker, N. age 19 listed as a home worker