My grandmother had some relatives from Poland near Bydgozck (the spelling is off I'm sure) named Valenty Sojka son of Matthew , I think. Valenty came to the USA with his 1st wife and child. He opened a mortuary in Toledo,Ohio and later changed his last name to Sujowski(it sounded more Polish). His grandson and greatgrandsons now run 3 mortuarys in the Toled area. Other family names are Gawronski,Stefaniak,Radecki and Helminiak. Does any of this sound familiar?