Hi, Joseph Soady is my 3rd great grand uncle, his sister Maria Sophie is my 3rd G GM. All 11 children were born in Looe. He married Jane Boll 8 Jun 1824 in Gerrans, Cornwall and they had 9 children. However, I have John married in 1864 to Susananna Welch and they had seven children, He eventually became a farmer on his own account. He was born 1844 in Tresco, Isles of Scilly and he died in 1920, his wife died in 1927. I have no record of your GG GM Julia Delisle from Guernsey. Other family researchers have the same details as I.
Have you more details on Julia such as marriage and children. Is John Soady the same man as we have in our tree? John's last child Edwin was born 1879. John died in 1920 on his farm we presume. He and his wife are buried in the same cemetery in Tywardreath, Cornwall, so I doubt they divorced.
Look forward to hearing from you.