hello brian,so i have the right john in the right family, good.as for julia delisle she was born in guernsey abt 1840 her father was daniel delisle and her mother was diana shepherdson,six children, all in guernsey on the 1851 census.daniel dies 1855.1861 census diana and kids living with rachel delisle but i found julia in cheltenham ,
she then marries john soady he dies and her and
her son walter are on the 1871 census with her mother in tenby,in 1872 julia marries tom shepherdson and i think they have 3kids (need to do more work on that) then she marries john hartle a much older man but he has a few bob i have the will.they have two kids ruth my g.grandmother and martha she dies age about 15 or16yr old .regards maxine