I am granddaughter to Myrtie and named after Della. My real name is LynDella, otherwise known as Judy. That's a long story that I always blame on my father. Ruby was born in Young County, but I don't think she died there. I know that she was alive in 1975 when my grandmother died. She was listed as Ruby Gray from Terrell in the obit. I know she had a daughter Lillian Inez Whitman born in 1928 and her husband died in the 30s, In 1940 she lived in Dallas. I have a lead that she may have married after Mr. Gray and may have lived in Longview but I have not been able to follow up on any of that. I called a relative that may have known but they had no interest in getting back to me. Maybe some day one of us will run across some info to track her down.
If you need any info on the family, I'll be glad to help. I have taken a little break from this family for a little while. I have most of the information on the older generations of the family.