Hi Kathy
Your post was a long time ago. But I may have some anwsers for you. I am doing research on Eschenbacher's. My grandmother was Mary Eschenbacher, her father was John, who was born 1n 1855. His wife (my great grandmother) Mary Sehy was born Feb 1859 in NY. John immigrated to USA in 1857.
Mary Sehy (born in NY) and John Eschenbacher had 12 children. I have an address from 1900 census. Ninth Street, Manhattan.....
If you want to know more, email me and we can communicate.
Hope this helps.. Maybe you could tell me what you know.