Hi Mindy
My Dad was born and raised in WV and the stories he tells are great. A picture would be great,maybe one with your grandmother and you in it. It was a very bad thing that that happened to your grandmother and and if I were you and your Dad, I wouldn't want anything to do with the Scaggs name. Mark was not a very good man to be fooling around on his dying wife,but this is just between you and me. The kids were all grow when this happened and having their families. My sister was born in '40 and me in '45, so we are in your dad's age range.
I don't understand the circumstances you had with Heather. What made you nervous?
If this upsets you in anyway,please feel free to say so. I will understand. Hope to here from you again. Laraine