Thank you for your help fran i think that may be my grandfather. i just found more info on my father i went to oklahoma newspaper found obituaries for july 30 2009 which says he died two days before. They left info for funeral services i called the funeral home and a nice lady named Valoria helped me and found my dads services also shes calling next of kin for me and giving them my phone number since the info is private she cannot give me the info. God is definately helping me in this search. Thank you for your help