Finally!!!! Found a little blurb in Newmarket Era newspaper "Gresham Proctor attended the funeral of his sister in law Mrs Thomas Proctor ,intered in Newton Robinson cemetery AND found Albrt Proctor of Morristown New York obit ,sister MrsAsa Phillips. Proves he was the son of Edwin Proctor !
Oh and for anyone who hasn't seen my other posting ,Harrison ,Gershom ,Issac and Thomas etc had a brother Henry born in 1920 , he went to Iowa, obit was in Newmarket Era.