As you have found through Rootsweb, the Welsh have a confusing lineage – all the surnames of
Jones,
Hughes,
Parry,
Williams,
Owens,
Evans (it seems to be easier if you have a standout name such as Caldwaldr or
Llewelyn). Then there are the people like “JosRWilliams” who have a common surname in their history (such as
Parry) and the same first names littered throughout (Thomas, William, John,
Owen, Mary, Jane, Elizabeth, Ann) and yet have no connection, except possibly because of intermarrying which happened frequently even into the late 1800s. Even the farm which Mr. Williams cites as his
Parry family farm located SE of Llanrhaedr is in close proximity to the
Parry family farm our Thomas
Parry lived in, yet is quite different.
However, I’m pretty sure this
Parry connection is the right one, because I grew up hearing of my mother’s “Aunt Lizzie” who died shortly after the birth of her son, David, in 1892. Most of my
Parry information comes from Elsie
Porter, who was the only daughter of
Griffith Parry, your Elizabeth’s younger brother born in
Wisconsin. She was interested in family research most of her adult life (she died a few years ago in
New York) and got a lot of her information directly from her father,
Griffith. Also, a lot of family history was researched first-hand by John
Holliday (also deceased). His wife was the daughter of Elizabeth
Parry Turner, the only daughter of Arthur
Parry (another brother of your Elizabeth) and Effie
Williams. He was very thorough and I trust his and Elsie’s research because I’ve checked it out personally with some cousins of my mother’s who live in
Wales. At any rate, Annie
Parry – the youngest and last child of Thomas and Jane
Parry – was my grandmother and Elizabeth (
Parry) Jones’ little sister. My mother, Eleanor
Owens, was the only daughter of Annie (
Parry) and Robert
Owens, and she grew up in
Wymore, NE.
Now, to fill in gaps: Your information from the 1861 census in
Wales seems to be correct. According to my information, Thomas and Jane (
Hughes)
Parry lived on Tan-y-Waen Farm near
Prion Church, 1.2 m. SW of the village of Llanrhaedr, Denbighshire, N.Wales. Tan-y-Waen (“under the hill”) was the home of Thomas
Parry after he moved there from his boyhood home of Bryndu (Brùnde). Bryndu (“black hill”) is located approx. 8.5 m. straight SE of Tan-y-Waen, or approx. 4 m. S of Ruthin, just west of the A595. Thomas
Parry had an older brother, William (who married and remained in
Wales), who would have been heir to the Bryndu Farm – which may have been the reason Thomas moved north to the
Prion District, because his mother, Mary (
Hughes), was from that area – Y-Foel Farm. Thomas met and married Jane
Hughes (a cousin – her father was his mother’s brother) on May 29, 1857. They lived at Tan-y-Waen ten years, had four children (Mary-1860, Elizabeth-1862, John-1864 and Arthur-1865)) and immigrated to America in (according to Griffith’s daughter, Elsie) 1867. The T. Parry Family arrived in
New York in March 1868; moved to Dawn, MO in April; then moved to
Oshkosh, WI in January 1869. Griffith was born in
Oshkosh in 1869 and Annie was born in
Racine in 1873. They ended up in 1880 near Postville, NE.
So there you have a “thumbnail sketch” of our family tree. I have written a lot of specific information in this email. But I wanted to prove to you that your Thomas
Parry is the same as mine. I have further detailed written information from both Elsie
Porter and John
Holliday which I would be happy to send to you, and a couple of family trees that would be very helpful to you in untangling the threads of the
Parry and
Jones and
Williams Families. I also have numerous family photos, including one of the entire Thomas
Parry family; and I believe I have one photo of Lizzie (
Parry)
Jones and one of her husband David, although I’m not certain of them. There are also copies of photos of your father’s sister, Jane (
Jones)
Welty, and her family, if you would like to have them.
Let me know if you are interested in exchanging addresses. Do you still live in Canada? I had read that David
Jones moved to Canada and remarried and then his son, David, left the Parrys to live with him. Also, if you have family photos of Elizabeth and David
Jones, they would help to fill in the gaps in my heritage album. Do you happen to have any information on the other
Parry siblings – Mary, John or Arthur? I have just a little on each. Mary (
Parry)
Hughes, the oldest, has been the hardest to research – she ended up in California. That’s all for now. Even though all this may be a little overwhelming, I hope it helps.