Wow, our dates are so different. Perhaps they aren't the same folks. I got my information from the 1850
Smyth county, VA census. John
Pafford age 50 b NC, Sarah Ann age 45 b VA, John 17 b VA, Robert 15 b VA, Elizabeth E. 8 b VA, Cynthia 3 b VA, and infant b VA. In the 1853-1861
Smyth Co VA Marriages index, I found reference to John
Pafford marrying Martha A. Hutton in 1856. and Robert
Pafford marrying Jane "
Pafford" in 1857. The dates seem to work out as far as marriage ages and all. What information do you have and do you remember where you got it? Interesting.