These mountains (western NC) are full of Owenbeys. In fact that is one of the lines I research. Hope this helps some. I I haven't found Betty Steinman.
Ronnie Allen Owenbey born 3/ 1961 to James Robinson Owenbey in Asheville, Buncombe Co NC. (mother not listed)
http://trees.ancestry.com/tree/11895077/person/-322593757 could be James Robinson Owenbey - need to verify date