Hi, I was just searching the Oppedisanos and saw this message. I dated Vincent N. Oppedisano ll for 5 years back around 1986. His father was the Senior and he was married to Virginia (Ginny) with another son Kirk. They live in Cundy's Harbor, Maine. The brother was Joesph, but he changed his last name to, I believe, Peterson? He was a sail maker-the last I knew of. I hope this helps. They are a wonderful family.