At some point along the way my name became Mike Inglisia, supposedly temporarily, through some email access I got and it just seems to appear in various places even though it is still me, Dale David West. In any event, yes, at this point I tend to agree about the widower issue. I think it was a second marriage for BOTH of them and that they BOTH had prior children that need accounting for. I seem to have addressed this somewhere on these pages. I am sure it will come back along the wheel with a few more bits of data.