My Lulhams are connected to Burwash, Heathfield, Rotherfield, and Mayfield in E. Sussex. I have found 9 children for:
Benjamin Lulham b. ca 1803 Burwash and Elizabeth Barden b. ca 1806 Burwash.
I have managed to trace 3 daughters - Eliza (m. Henry Covell, died young, no children); Harriet (m. George Plumb, lived in Battle, London, and Toronto - many children, many descendants); and Frances (m. Robert Chandler, 5 children, lived around Lewes).
I can find nothing on the following children other than listed in early censuses with their parents. Hard to believe they could all disppear without a trace - suspect emigration!
Benjamin b. ca 1831
Thomas b. ca 1833
Mary J. b ca 1836
John G. or S. b. ca 1838
William Henry reg. Jun 1844
Leonard reg. Dec 1847
Would love to know more about them.
Diana.