I found the death certificate for John Atkocaitis, my mother's grandfather on familysearch.org His burial is at St. Mary's in Westfield. I called the number for the cemetery listed online (a Westfield number) and they connect you to the Diocese of Spfld who now run the cemetery. There was a woman (whose name I can't recall) who was filling in for the regular lady (I have talked to her in the past and she isn't all that friendly). The lady working that day looked on the computer and gave me a list of everyone who had the name Atkocaitis and where they are buried in St. Mary's (doesn't include Coachs'). My great-grandfather John (Jonas) was NOT on the computer. I was told to call back and see if the specific burial location was on index cards, but I just haven't done it. He is not buried with his wife Susan Minalga.
I forget, are you related to the Atkocaitis'? If you want to email me at my email address, I will retype the information about Lots/Plot info for you. My aunt and I were able to locate Alexander and Agnes Atkocaitis' stone, and my aunt found Antoni and Anna's stone.... I just haven't seen it.
My personal email is:
figarosimon@yahoo.comDonna