I believe that Nora was my grandmother on my fathers side. My father (John McMenemy} died in 1956 at age 29 and Nora came from California at that time. I was only 8 yrs old and remember quite clearly that my mother was not fond of her....don't know why. She brought me a tooled leather purse with a half dollar in it....something I will never forget. I believe that Ray was her second husband.