I'm a descendent of Isabella Lee as well and am trying to clarify information too.
I'm questioning where she was born. Some trees show Washington VA and Washington County VA in 1789. But if Abner Lee and Catherine Wilson were her parents, and they were married in Green TN in 1785, did they return to VA 4 years later when Isabella was born? I live in Virginia and want to explore a little in courthouse documents, etc though some documents may have been destroyed in fires.
My brother lives just south of where she lived in Missouri and I hope to be able to explore the area on my next visit. I had seen a picture online of her grave marker.
Julie Clark