Yes I have seen these photo of these grave stones. However, Henry Lanham's will does not name Amelia Lanham as his daughter. Henry was not living in Frederick Co. MD where she married Asia McKay.
I am looking at a Joseph Latham who was living in Frederick Co. MARYLAND at the time of Asia McKay and Amelia Lanham. The names spelled on their marriage bond.
I have seen false information posted on Find a Grave in the past.
Where did your Asa live before IN ? He is not related to my group of McKay who did live in Shenandoah Co. VA.