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Emilie (Bode) Kuder died 24 May 1933 and is buried at the Central Wisconsin Veterans Memorial Cemetery in King (Waupaca), WI:
http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=82...Theodore was a CW veteran (Co D, 9th WI INF), so it is likely that she was a resident of the WI Veterans Home connected to the cemetery.