Am Betty Gaylors Step Mother, she deceased 2002 not 2003, it is listed in the coalgate obituary, Harvey decease as said about the year of 1970.
Here is a contact that might help you, who or how he is related to Harvey, maybe a Brother...
Floyd Gaylor -506 E. Vincent
Coalgate, Ok 74538 -3812.
1-580-927-1068
As Harvey Gaylor and Betty had 6 children Tammy, Nancy, Vicky, Joe, Jim, and Charles...Gaylor...all are adults into their 30's up to 40's