Hi Gail,Do you still live in Capetown as Tony Plows your cousin and I came to see you several years ago we were on holiday as Tony's mother was your Aunt Joan.Well sorry to say that Tony passed away Sept.20th 2008 ,he had kidney cancer and died within ten weeks, his mother Joan died four days later aged 94yrs old then her partner died four days after so a very sad time.Mike and Rosalie still live in Capetown,have you been in touch with your half brother in Australia,hope yo hear from you Kind Regards Shirley Plows.