Hi Jane, can you tell us the county or town they were living in? Does anyone know birth/death dates and who the children married? I believe the LDS site listed Albert Ihde marrying Anna Krabbe.
Also a Fred Ihde was listed as a farmer in the Shelton area in Buffalo Co. NE in 1890-91. Buried near there in the Cameron Cemetery in Hall County are Ellen Louise Ihde, born 12/27/1895 (no death date, probably stillborn) and Walter Ihde, born 11/1/1891, Died 2/5/1892.