Hello Sharon,
That is so sad!
I tried to go to your tree but didn't find any Ihacz in it. I've been corresponding with another forum member. It does not seem that our families are the related.
There are many links and leads I am going to follow to try to find my 'real' last name.
Thank you for your reply.
Sincerely,
Theresa (Iha) Hurlburt