Actually, I'm your father's first cousin from E. Hanover. I think we met at your grandfather's funeral. My father is James Iradi. Your father, brother or male cousins should get tested to match their DNA to mine; at least another male family member is going to be needed to definitely establish our "Ieradi" lines' genetic code. Once we fix the DNA fingerprint for our Ieradi line, it can be compared with other family lines (including those with completely different last names) to see if our Ieradi family is related to any others.