Dear karen r. ibarrondo:
I have to tell you that maybe there were more than two rufino ibarrondo because the rufino who was my uncle he is not the son of thomas ibarrondo nor brother of angel nor antonio. the rufino related to my family in mayaguez for whom i got his birth certificate was son to juan de dios ibarrondo and cecilia lopez and he was born in san sebastian, pr , not spain as people keep saying. anyway maybe angel was cousin to donato and bernardo but my family never knew no antonio nor angel but i really believe what your mom told you that angel escaped from his abusive father and end it up in yauco. i know a few ibarrondo that have acted the same way separating from their families. i have not legal evidence about were bernardo nor donato were born maybe they really came from spain, but who can prove it? nobody.....so good luck and nice talking to you.
mary ibarrondo