Thanks Mike!, I have found a relative living in New Zealand that confirmed she was unmarried, never married at that, and that she lived with her children in the 1880 census. From there on she lived with her daughter and her son in law until she passed. I am pretty much at my end here until I can find a way to England and do research there on Mary, to see if she did have a bastardy order, or get a copy of the birth certificate. That is also providing that a father is listed. Thank you for all your help!