The Dearings, I believe, are connected to the John Henry Hiles line which is not connected to the John & Charity Hiles. Their son, John, married the daughter of Adam Householder. As for the gentlemen looking for the John who married Elizabeth... try looking through the Henry Hiles line, or check out the Christopher Hiles & Rebecca Low group out of Hocking Cty, OH. Good luck to you both. t.