Hello Peter,
I'm your Aunt Stephanie :-) Harry Sr was my dad (I am his daughter from his second marriage, to Malvina Orosz). I haven't seen your mom and dad since I was maybe 10 or so? I believe that neither you nor your sister were born yet, only Christopher (do you still call him Topher?)...
Anyway, I moved recently and haven't fully unpacked, but you and Lee (and probably a bunch of people on this board) would be interested to know that I have a copy of a family history for the Heacox's going back to 1776. It has a picture of my dad and grandma (Lucinda) near the beginning, in fact.
Don't quite see how to send a personal email here, but would be happy to get directly in touch! Take care, and love to your parents...
Stephanie