I'm trying my reply again without the link, as that is the only reason I can think of for the administrator to delete my posting from yesterday.
There is a novel called 'Not Without Peril', that was written about some of the family members affected by this situation. It is very interesting and well worth reading if you are able to locate a copy. It was originally written in 1941, I think, with reprints in 1989 and 2004, so it shouldn't be toooooo difficult to find a copy. If you would like the link that I posted for it yesterday, please contact me directly and I will send it to you.
Lynne