Thank you but i have checked the same 1900 census. I thought that he may have been the Will i was looking for but it list him as already being married. Also i have recently found my great grandfathers' death certificate and it says that he was born in 1861 and so does his tombstone. I also found out that his first name was actually John. His parents are listed as Stokes (think that i read it right) and Sarah Watts. However i can't find anything about Stokes or Sarah. There was a Stokes McIntyre in NC but the dates and names do not match up. And as for the grooms Lizzie's father John was in and out of there home according to the census records so i am still working on that line. Most of my Quick line is from Marlboro County and parts of NC.