Laban's parents were William Henry Gray (1818-1861) and Susan Cogswell (1822-1879).

Amy Loughman's parents were Andrew Loughman (1809-1870) and Charlotte Anderson (1810-1870).

Something seems off with Laben & his parents and their DOBs, but not out of the realm of possibility, and the names are certainly correct as per his death certificate. Will continue to investigate.