I am searching for information about Benjamin Grafton, b:abt 1819 in Marshall,Harford County,Md, family lore says that he was called "Big Benjie" and he was married to an Indian named Blunder, the 1860 census lists his wife as Brinda and the 1870 census lists her name as Melinda. Their children are as follows: Nancy b:abt 1847, Martha b:abt 1849, Benjamin b:1851, William b: abt 1853, John b: abt 1853, JAMES AQUILLA (my ggftr) 1861-1927, Laura 1868-1951, Any info would be greatly appreciated.