Hi Steve, This is blowing my mind...Does he have dirty blonde/blonde hair and blue eyes? My mom said he is where I got my coloring. Unbelievable..I've always wanted a sister. He would have gone to Westport Highschool. If so, I think we've got our man. And you have a new cousin! Has he ever mentioned an "illegimate child"? I don't want him messing with my life (my dad would be hurt) and I'm sure he'd rather not tell his wife if she doesn't already know, so thank you for keeping this between you and me. I know that your loyalty would be more to your family than a stranger, so I really do appreciate it.