Wow....I tried calling Lois Bender today to find that she died quite awhile ago.....quite a shame. :(
Anyhoo I'm an Erxleben and would love to get in contact with anyone that could help me see my ancestors.
Grandfather was Fred Erxleben who lived in Elizabeth, NJ (the PAL building there is named after him!)
please post here or let me know your email so we can get in touch!