Sorry to hear that you lost your wife. No doubt she was some sort of cousin. I have not worked with my tree for quite some time, but I have always believed that my Francis/Lucy Erwin was the son of Thomas Robert and Barbara (Nickell) Erwin. According to other researchers, Robert and Barbara had a son named Francis, but no one seems to have any information on him. My Francis gives his place of birth as Virginia (now West Virginia) and named his children using many of the names from the Robert/Barbara Erwin line. A couple of males from the Francis/Barbara line have been tested, but their DNA does not seem to match closely to anyone. I keep trying to find a male from one of the other sons of Robert and Barbara for testing, but haven't succeeded - yet. This is one of my more interesting lines. I think they were a hot tempered bunch!!! Thank you for responding.